Best Realistic Strap-On Dildos

A realistic strap-on dildo is a great way to enjoy each other but there is a huge difference between the quality and the realism of the different dildos.

I’ve created this guide to the best realistic strap-on dildos so you can find the right product for your wallet size and expectations.

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What is The Best Realistic Strap-On Dildo?

#1. RealCock2 – Most Realistic

This is not a single dildo but a series of 5 hyper realistic dildos that all works in the Vac-U-Lock strap-on harness.

You can order each dildo in a wide range of skin tone options to match your skin tone for a more realistic appearance.

realcock2 most realistic strap-on dildo

Pros:

  • Extremely realistic looking
  • Triple layer material makes it feel realistic
  • 5 Size options
  • Lots of color options

Cons:

  • Very expensive!
  • Does not work with a standard O-ring harness

What I Think About it

You’re getting the most realistic looking strap-on dildo with the RealCock2 but the price is also really high. The price makes it a no go for most people but if you’re looking for the most realistic then this is it.

Get the RealCock2 if you want the most realistic strap-on dildo no matter the cost.

#2. Lifelike Lover Classic – Best Budget Option

The Lifelike lover dildo is a very cheap and realistic looking dildo with a standard suction cup base perfect for an O-ring strap-on harness.

You can get it in a lot of different sizes and skin tones so you can match your own skin tone.

Pros:

  • Super cheap
  • Looks decent for the price
  • Works in standard O-ring strap-ons
  • Lots of colors and sizes

Cons:

  • No dual/triple density material
  • Coloring is very basic

What I Think About it

Just to be very clear here, there are a lot more realistic looking strap-on dildos available but they all cost a lot more. I really want products for a lot of wallet sizes so you’ll be able to find the right one for you even if you’re on a tight budget.

The overall finish and quality are decent and you’re getting a lot for your money with the Lifelike Lover.

This will fit in all standard O-ring harnesses and it’s not too heavy so you’ll need a harness with back support.

I recommend the Lifelike Lover if you’re after a cheap realistic dildo for strap-on play.

#3. SoReal Posable Realistic Dildo

The SoReal dildos from Rodeoh are a lineup of realistic looing and feeling dildos that come in a wide selection of skin tones, length and girths.

They are not realistic as the RealCock2’s but they are really great for the price point. All the different SoReal dildos can be used in Rodeoh’s own strap-on underwear or a standard O-ring strap-on harness. There are recommended O-ring size under each dildo size so you can get the right size.

Pros:

  • Dual density material for extra realistic feel
  • They look amazing
  • 4 Skin tone options
  • Lots of length and girth options
  • They are posable

Cons:

  • Not quite up there in terms of realism

What I Think About it

The SoReal dildos from Rodeoh have a lot of things going on for them which sets them apart from the competition. I love that you can bend the shaft and making it perfect for G/P-spot massage or why not bend it in an unnatural way and see how that feels.

I personally love dual density dildos which makes the feel a lot more realistic than dildos made of a single material type. The SoReal realistic strap-on dildo got that perfect mix between a firm core and a softer exterior.

I would recommend the SoReal dildo with one of Rodeoh’s great strap-on underwear sets which is an amazing combo.

*The link below leads to the Rodeoh homepage where you can find the SoReal dildos under menu > Dildos > Realistic Dildos.

#4. Doc Johnson Realistic Strap-on Kit

The Doc Johnson realistic strap-on starter set contain everything you need to get started with strap-on play. It contains 3 different sizes of dildos which all have dual density material and the largest have a very realistic looking texture and patterns on the head and shaft.

You’re also getting one of Doc Johnson’s vac-u-lock strap-on harnesses which is high quality and included 3 sizes of O-rings.

Pros:

  • Including 3 semi realistic dildos
  • The harness works with all Vac-U-Lock dildos
  • Dual density design
  • Great overall value

Cons:

  • The dildos are not super realistic

What I Think About it

This is a great starter set if you’re getting into realistic strap-ons and the quality of the different parts are pretty good.

I really like the feel of their dual density dildos which have a very skin-like texture on the outside and the firmer core to keep it stiff.

The 2 smaller dildos do feel realistic but they don’t look that realistic so you need to consider that before getting this set.

I recommend the Doc Johnson Realistic strap-on starter set if you’re new to strap-ons and want a great starter set.

#5. Lifelike Lover Realistic Strap-on Set

This low-budget realistic strap-on dildo kit contains 3 sizes of O-ring which fits in the strap-on harness. The dildos that’s included all have their own unique ability and use cases which is nice.

The first dildo is a 6-inch (15cm) slim dildo perfect for pegging and anal play for beginners. The second dildo is a lot thicker and it has a vibrator in the shaft and a set of balls for a more realistic look. The last dildo is a long beast with an insertable length of 8-inches (20cm) which should be long enough for most users.

Pros:

  • Very good value
  • 3 different realistic dildos
  • Vibrating feature
  • 3 O-ring sizes
  • Standard harness

Cons:

  • The quality of the harness is not that great
  • It can be uncomfortable to use for longer sessions

What I Think About it

The Lifelike Lover Realistic strap-on kit is a low-budget kit for beginners that’s perfect if you don’t want to spend a lot of money but still want decent quality.

I like the dildos which are from Lovehoney’s Lifelike Lover series of dildos which are realistic looking and low-budget.

It’s pretty nice that they’ve included a vibrating dildo in the kit but please don’t expect too much in terms of vibration quality.

I recommend the Lifelike Lover strap-on set if you’re looking for a budget strap-on set with realistic dildos.

Avoid These Mistakes When Choosing a Realistic Strap-On Set

The most common mistake when buying strap-on harnesses and dildos is incompatibility but there are other things you need to consider:

  • Incompatibility – There are several attachment systems on dildos and harnesses which is super annoying so make sure you select the right type of harness for your dildo. I’ve included harness suggestions to all the products above.
  • Harness strap size – A strap-on harness has a range that the straps will expand. Measure your hip and waist size and make sure you’re in the range of the product you’re looking at.
  • Dildo sagging – This occurs when your strap on dildo is too heavy for you harness. Make sure that the harness you select has extra back-support if you’re planning on using a large dildo.

FAQ:

A: Mount the dildo in your harness with the included O-ring or other types of mounting equipment. Loosen the straps on the harness and put it on like underwear. Tighten the straps around your thighs and waist to a comfortable level, you can always tighten it more or loosen it depending on how it feels.

A: You can use your realistic dildo as long as it has a standard suction-cup dildo design which fits in an O-ring strap-on harness.

A: You should only use water-based lube to prevent damage to your sex toys.

Final Thoughts About Realistic Strap-On Dildos

There are so many great options when it comes to realistic strap-on dildos and it really all comes down to how much you’re willing to spend on it.

Some of the options not just looks realistic but feels very realistic with their dual or even triple layer design.

I would highly recommend the RealCock2 lineup if you can afford it but the other options are also really good and way more affordable.

Charley Jefferson

Charley Jefferson

I'm the main author on aiclegal.org, This is my website where I share products I like and think the world should know about. I work in the adult sex toy retail business where I started in late 2008. I'm the link between the manufacturers and the retail business, hence the reason why I know where the sex toy trends are going. You can read more about me at my profile at Charley's author profile.

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